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In Our Home

August 12, 2014 By Jodi Murphy Leave a Comment

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There are brilliant autism stories that have been written, blog posts that have been posted, and articles that have been published, that are sadly buried in the news feeds and blogosphere…We’re on the hunt for these missing manuscripts to bring these ‘treasures’ back for you to discover!

In this article, Laura talks about autism in her home…

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In Our Autism Home
By Laura Henretty, Autism and Other Ramblings

In our autism home, autism speaks. Well, actually, it either mumbles incoherently or it screams at the top of it’s lungs. Either way, it takes several goes before we understand what is being said.

In our autism home, it is decorated with juice spills, milk spills, melted chocolate and fingerprints. No amount of cleaning them away keeps them away. I have become accustomed to the pretty patterns they make on the walls.

In our autism home, we can tell how much Caidan has grown by looking at the height of the aforementioned fingerprints on the wall.

In our autism home, poo is a hot topic of conversation. Consistency, colour, frequency, we have poo conversations as often as others talk about what they did all day. Probably because poo is a big part of what Caidan did all day, or didn’t do, depending on the poo situation at that time.

In our autism home, our kitchen cupboard is full of melatonin and Movicol (for the poo situation!) and some Imigran for mummy’s stress induced migraines.

In our autism home, a ‘day out’ consists of no more than 2 hours. It is always a visit to somewhere very open, like the Botanic Gardens or a country park. Open spaces and nature are a winner. Anything else or any longer a time will pretty much guarantee a meltdown that evening.

In our autism home, sleep is not a right, it is a privilege. A good nights sleep consists of 5 hours unbroken.

In our autism home, we have a constant supply of pork pies, melon, strawberries and fruit smoothie drinks. Life would be hell if we ran out  of any of them!

In our autism home, we watch every video of Old Macdonald Had a Farm ever uploaded to You Tube. One after the other. Have you any idea how many videos of Old Mac have been uploaded to You Tube?

In our autism home, we get to watch lots of Disney films. Never all the way through though as we are told to change it after 20 minutes. There are so many Disney films we would love to see all the way through, they are so good, but nope, 20 minutes is what we get!

In our autism home, we feel sorry for our neighbours who get woken up by screaming at 3am. The only thing I can say is, at least our neighbours can stick earplugs in and go back to sleep. Trust me, we aren’t fans of the 3am wake ups either. Especially when daddy has to be up at 6am for an 11 hour shift at work.

In our autism home, people are always welcome. For ten minutes. Usually by that time Caidan is standing in front of them constantly telling them ‘Bye bye, it’s time to go.’ Over and over until they get the hint. When they do decide to leave, they are often given a shove towards the front door. He is nothing if not helpful, my son.

In our autism home, we laugh. We laugh a lot. Without laughter, it would be so much harder to get through. We try and find humour in every situation. Even when it involves poo in the carpet or on the toys or all over Caidan. You have to find the humour. Somehow.

In our autism home, toys are not for playing with. Toys are lethal weapons to be thrown at the head of whoever has displeased Caidan at that time. You would be surprised how much a Mr Men book can hurt if it catches you in the right , or wrong place.
I feel in the last year our reflexes have really improved and we can get ourselves out of the way 7 times out of 10. The windows however, aren’t so lucky.

In our autism home, it is normal for mummy and daddy to be hit and kicked. We are thankful that as yet, we have not been bitten. A 4 year old has a lot of strength when he is being stopped from doing something he wants to do, even if it IS dangerous and could involve a trip to the local Children’s hospital accident and emergency dept.

In our autism home, we are used to being ‘stroked.’ By that I mean, I get my left temple stroked and daddy gets his nose stroked. It’s a sensory thing, it seems to calm Caidan down. The fact that to us, it is akin to Chinese water torture is irrelevant. Caidan’s sensory needs are more important.

In our autism home, we have love and patience and strength in abundance. Autism has made us better people and Caidan teaches us every day. Sometimes they are not lessons we want  to learn, but we take the good with the bad. Autism can be heartbreaking but it is also amazing. We celebrate things that to others may seem small and insignificant, but to us and to Caidan, they are the equivalent of climbing Everest! We have learned to appreciate the moments, for they are more important than the milestones where autism is concerned. Our autism home is a happy one, mostly. Yes, there are tears, Caidan’s and ours, but for the most part, we are a happy, joyful home. We work hard at it, it could so easily go the other way, but that achieves nothing. We focus on Caidan’s strengths whilst working on his weaknesses.

In our autism home, we are doing the best we can to do what’s right for Caidan and for us all as a family. And I think we are doing a damn good job of it!

If you liked this article, you might enjoy Laura’s “This is Autism” article too.

**Laura Henretty is a married mum of 2, an 18 year old daughter and a 4 year old son, who is autistic. She is a stay at home mum, blogger and a jack of all trades and master of none. She also admits to an unhealthy obsession with Boyzone and David Tennant. Follow her on Autism and Other Ramblings.

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About Jodi Murphy

Jodi Murphy is the founder of Geek Club Books, a registered nonprofit committed to creating a world where autistic individuals are fully accepted, valued and have a voice. Her priority is bringing autistic individuals creative and leadership opportunities that are meaningful, empowering and support their advocacy. She works with a creative autistic team to produce pop culture-based autism awareness education that is innovative, engaging, positive and opens hearts and minds to a new way of thinking about autism. Sign up for Geek Club Books mailing list for free apps, resource guides, curriculum, audio stories and more: https://geekclubbooks.com/autism-bundle.

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