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10 Best Words to Describe an Autism Parent

April 15, 2015 By Jodi Murphy 10 Comments

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Describe an Autism Parent

I’ve been thinking about my being an autism parent. (Now that my children are adults I actually have time for reflection.) I am the parent of two, one with Asperger’s Syndrome and the other who’s not on the autism spectrum. Did I raise them differently? Not really. Both of them have my unconditional love and attention. But I do think that having a child with special needs made me dig deep into my soul’s reservoir and activate the personality traits necessary to help him flourish.

Describe an Autism Parent

So what are those traits? What words just pop into your mind to describe an autism parent?  I asked our Geek Club Books autism community on Facebook this question and the post exploded with responses! Using the community’s input and my own personal opinion, here is my top 10 list:

GENUINE

Lydia Wayman posted this word. She is a young woman on the autism spectrum and she encounters autism parents at her speaking engagements and when she works at the autism resource center,  Parents in Toto. She’s right. Every autism parent I’ve been fortunate to meet in person or online is authentic and genuine. There is no pretense. What you see is what they are. None of us has time to put on airs.

UNSTOPPABLE

Does the Energizer Bunny come to mind? We don’t have the luxury of slowing down as we must keep on going and going and going to make sure are kids are receiving the best care and support possible.

OVER-CAFFEINATED

Many posted ‘tired,’ ‘exhausted,’ but Rebecca Marcincak’s ‘over-caffeinated’ acknowledges our collective fatigue and the fact that we push through (using whatever means possible). There’s no time to catch up on our sleep because our kids need us. So, double shot of espresso or another strong cup of tea please and I’ll be on my way!

awesome autism parents and their children

HUMOROUS

Life is just so much better when you approach it with a sense of humor. I’ve seen a huge transformation in my son over the years. He used to take everything so seriously. He couldn’t laugh at his foibles or see the humor in his aspieness. As he’s matured and gained self-confidence, he pokes fun at life (with a twinkle in his eye) and takes pride in being able to make others laugh.

I also think of Brent Anderson, an adult on the spectrum and popular speaker, who enjoys sharing his literal mind and his “Unintentional Humor.”

FEARLESS

I’ll bet you never thought of yourself as fearless. I know I didn’t. But we are. There is no manual for raising a child on the autism spectrum. And there isn’t a central information hub for finding resources—therapies, schools, independent living, and employment. It’s up to us to seek those resources out and, often, fight for them.

EVER-VIGILANT

We never let down our guards. Our ears are tuned to conversations—are they making fun of my child? Our eyes are constantly scanning left and right—is everything okay? Even though he’s an adult and living independently, I’m always aware of what’s happening in my son’s life to make sure he is safe and secure.

SELFLESS

Our children first. Helping others in our autism community second. We’re committed and concerned about the needs of others first before ours.

SCARED

We try not to worry or think about the future. We’ve all seen the statistics so, yes, we’re scared. But we’re not paralyzed by our fears and we all try to take it one day at a time.

BRAVE

The word ‘warrior’ came up several times. I like to imagine myself as the Asgardian warrior, Sif, battling my way through the world to clear a path for my son. Fantasy aside, it’s parents like Sharon Cummings who embody the warrior spirit. She’s just one mom who bravely stepped out her comfort zone to make a difference for her autistic son and the special needs community at large.

AWESOME!

Just like their children…

awesome autism parents and their children

Do you agree with my list? Share your thoughts in comments and on Facebook.

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**Special thanks to everyone in our Facebook community who posted their words and to Heather Benitez, Fiona Grant, Jennifer Harris, Susan Crozier-Mackenzie, Nance Strueh, Julie Farkas Brusio, Lorri Smith, Eu Filha De Deus, Sarah Walkden, Nicole Lajoie, Rebecca Hyder, and Stephanie Bakarich for sharing their photos!

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Filed Under: Autism Acceptance, Blog Haps Tagged With: autism parenting

About Jodi Murphy

Jodi Murphy is the founder of Geek Club Books, a registered nonprofit committed to creating a world where autistic individuals are fully accepted, valued and have a voice. Her priority is bringing autistic individuals creative and leadership opportunities that are meaningful, empowering and support their advocacy. She works with a creative autistic team to produce pop culture-based autism awareness education that is innovative, engaging, positive and opens hearts and minds to a new way of thinking about autism. Sign up for Geek Club Books mailing list for free apps, resource guides, curriculum, audio stories and more: https://geekclubbooks.com/autism-bundle.

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  1. Nance Strueh says

    April 15, 2015 at 9:21 am

    This turned out wonderfully. Just as we knew it would. Alex was excited to see his face on the picture collage also! 😉 Thanks again.

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    • Jodi Murphy says

      April 15, 2015 at 9:53 am

      Thanks Nance! So glad you and Alex participated 🙂

      Reply
  2. Simon says

    April 22, 2015 at 5:26 am

    All those things describe my other half. She has two autistic kids,well adults now, and an autistic husband and has put up with all that for over 30 years.

    Reply
    • Jodi Murphy says

      April 22, 2015 at 7:54 am

      Thank you for acknowledging her! I’m sure she feels very blessed and lucky to have such an ‘ausome’ family!

      Reply
  3. Cynthia says

    May 28, 2015 at 11:55 am

    The roaring Lioness always trying to protect my lion cub!

    Reply
  4. Sheogorath says

    May 31, 2015 at 7:34 am

    As an Autistic person, may I just point out that your son doesn’t have ‘special needs’? He actually has needs that, because of his neurology, aren’t guaranteed to be met like the needs of neurotypical people are. That’s why Autistic people are often disabled; not because we inherently can’t do things, but because we’re very often not given the opportunity to try on the basis of ‘special needs’.

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    • Jodi Murphy says

      May 31, 2015 at 7:57 am

      Thank you for your comment. Your definition of his needs is spot on.

      Reply
  5. Kelly Gregory says

    July 24, 2015 at 12:32 am

    My now adult daughter was not diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum until age 17. It was very hard advocating for her but I did my best. She is a good wife and mother now. I still find myself stepping up for her even now. Thanks for the group and support.

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    • Jodi Murphy says

      July 24, 2015 at 7:47 am

      We never stop being supportive moms, do we Kelly? I am so happy to hear that your daughter is doing well!

      Reply

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